Myles Lloyd on Music as Grounding, Not Perfection
By. Alicia Zamora
In an exclusive interview with Alicia’s Studio, Myles Lloyd spoke about music not as a finished product, but as a way of processing what he feels in real time. Rather than centering the conversation around numbers, reach, or momentum, he kept returning to something more private and fundamental: the original impulse to write before any of it was ever shared.
Long before listeners, releases, or expectations, music for Myles existed as a private language. A place to put thoughts that did not yet have shape in conversation. A way to translate emotion before it fully formed into understanding.
“I’ve always created as a way to process,” he said. “Even before anyone was listening, I was writing to understand what I felt. I’d jot down things I thought I couldn’t say out loud.”
That instinct has not disappeared as his audience has grown. If anything, it has become something he is more intentional about protecting.
“Turning confusion into something tangible is something that still guides me today,” he said. “No matter how big things get, I will always try to return to that private honesty.”
What defines his work now is not distance from emotion, but proximity to it. He is not trying to step outside of what he feels in order to explain it. He is staying inside of it long enough for it to take shape.
Writing That Leaves Room to Not Know
Myles’ songwriting resists the need to resolve itself cleanly. He is not interested in over-defining emotion or steering listeners toward a single interpretation. Instead, he allows his songs to exist in a space where meaning can shift depending on who is listening.
“If you know how I feel, then you know,” he said. “There’s no need for me to go into excessive detail or overexplain in a song just so someone can understand.”
That restraint is intentional. It reflects a belief that emotion does not always need translation to be understood.
He reflected on how his approach to emotion in music has changed over time.
“Maybe I was trying to intellectualize heartbreak instead of fully feeling it,” he said.
Now, his writing leans in a different direction. Less explanation. More presence. Less control over meaning. More trust in feeling.
Even when he is not intentionally writing about it, Myles notices that longing still shows up in his music.
“Longing, for sure,” he said. “Even in hopeful songs, there’s a thread of reaching for something just out of grasp.”
It is not framed as sadness, but as emotional continuity. Something that exists underneath different moods without disappearing.
“I don’t think I ever fully write from a place of complete resolution,” he added. “I’m human. I’m always going to be looking for answers.”
That unresolved nature becomes part of the emotional texture of his work. Nothing is fully closed. Everything continues to breathe.
Music as Grounding, Not Escape
For Myles, music is not a way to avoid emotion. It is a way to stay close enough to it that it does not spiral out of reach.
“I will always look at music as a way to stay grounded,” he said. “That’s my vice.”
Writing becomes a method of slowing down emotional repetition. Not stopping it entirely, but reshaping it into something visible.
“Writing is how I stop circling,” he explained. “The feelings don’t disappear, but they turn into something I can look at instead of something that just loops in my head all day.”
He described the process in simple terms.
“Making music is like my Tylenol,” he said. “Temporary relief until I have to take more again.”
There is no illusion of final healing. Just cycles of feeling, expression, and return.
Myles is highly aware of the point where editing stops improving a song and starts removing its emotional core.
“When I start removing details because they make me uncomfortable, that’s usually protection,” he said. “Refinement should sharpen emotion, not blur it.”
That awareness shapes how he finishes music. Not toward perfection, but toward recognition. A moment where the emotion still feels intact.
“If a song feels too clean, that’s when I know I’ve probably edited out something honest.”
On his recent collaboration, Myles worked with JUNNY and GEMINI, an experience he describes as expanding the emotional and sonic range of the track rather than altering its core.
“I was never nervous,” he said. “I love all of their work, and I just knew they would do it justice.”
Instead of changing the emotional foundation of the song, their contributions deepened it.
“The song became more dimensional,” he explained. “They brought even more life to something I thought was already maxed out.”
What stood out most to him was not just their performance, but their interpretation. Each artist approached the same emotional space differently, adding new layers rather than repeating the original intent.
Working with them also shifted how he thinks about collaboration more broadly.
“It teaches patience and curiosity,” he said. “Hearing how someone else approaches the same feeling expands your emotional and creative vocabulary.”
Rather than flattening his vision, collaboration opened it.
What Changes When Music Leaves the Room
Once music is released and performed, Myles notices how it begins to shift outside of his control.
“The audience changes everything,” he said. “Hearing people sing it back, or even react in a certain way, shifts the energy and meaning.”
At that point, the music no longer belongs only to him. It becomes shared emotional space.
“It stops being just mine at that point.”
Touring adds another layer of complexity, compressing time for reflection into brief moments between performance and movement.
“There’s really no time for a normal emotional routine,” he said. “It becomes all about the people you’re performing for.”
Even so, he does not frame that as absence. It is part of the exchange.
“There are pockets and small windows where you can find time to reflect,” he added. “But that time is limited. That’s the sacrifice you make.”
Looking at this chapter of his life, Myles does not point to metrics or external validation. He points to something quieter.
“Courage,” he said. “I’d want it to be remembered as a time when I chose honesty over comfort.”
If there is something he hopes stays with listeners, it is recognition rather than instruction.
“I hope they feel less alone in their overthinking, in loving deeply, and in feeling like they’re ‘too much,’” he said. “Those aren’t flaws. They’re part of being alive.”
Before ending the conversation, Myles returned to the idea of connection through honesty.
“Thank y’all for listening beyond the surface,” he said. “The music is a reflection of real moments, and the fact that you connect with it means more than numbers ever could.”
What remains is not a final statement, but a continuation. Music as process, not product. Feeling before explanation. And a commitment to staying inside that space long enough for it to matter.